The Magic of Choice

Clouds showing three timelines

Clouds showing three timelines

\r\n\r\nOther than the previous post of last month, I have not been guided to write in my blog for some time. Going through the shift of 2012 and progressing into this amazing year of 2013, I have been on a deep inner journey of discovery and transformation on many levels.\r\n\r\nI have been completely following my heart and only taking actions that feed my soul. Of course, many say that an entrepreneur must keep themselves in the public eye in front of their clients in order to keep business flowing … this means writing in your blog a few times a month. For me, though, all of that activity, up until now, just has not done it for me. I simply cannot move into any action that does not feel right.\r\n\r\nPerhaps you are feeling that way too? I have read that the “symptoms of ascension” include this kind of inertia for some and maybe that is what is happening. It is as though nothing matters, really, except inner peace and love for me. I have no ambition as in the past.\r\n\r\nIt is not that I do not care about our dolphin business at all, but I simply am in trust that all is in perfect divine order. I do know that choosing actions like sitting at the ocean each day for hours feeds my soul rather than working hard on marketing and business. My “normal, ambitious hard-working self” is taking the back seat for now and I am learning so much.\r\n\r\nI wish to share with you some profound experiences I have been having as I sit at the ocean and just BE. Continue reading

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Miracle of Song

My Dad and me

My Dad and me

\r\n\r\nI am moved to post this story as it has brought tears to those with whom I have shared it… may it inspire you and perhaps help with your loved ones too.\r\n\r\nThis is a photo of my dear Dad and I a few years before his passing in 2004. He suffered from Alzheimer’s disease and had a slow decline for some years until the family finally had to move him twenty five miles from his beloved retirement home and into the Mercy Care Home across the bay for special needs when he needed full time care.\r\n\r\nDad did not want to go. it was heartbreaking. I traveled from Hawaii, our home, back to California to help with the move as I wanted to be there to help my brother, Tim (Dad’s loving main caregiver), in any way I could.\r\n\r\nA few days ago, my brother sent me this email, which brought back those sweet memories of the magic that happened that day. Here it is:\r\n\r\nEMAIL SENT TO ME 3/8/13\r\n“So Trish, here I am reading the AARP bulletin (ain’t retirement weird?) and they have an article on the healing powers of music. “You can use music to get loved ones through transitions, whether it’s moving from one room to another or on to a different task.”\r\n\r\nAnd of course I immediately recalled that miraculous day when we were to move Dad from the Magnolia over to Mercy in Oakland (not the first time we tried, by the way). \r\n\r\nHe refused to get out of bed or to cooperate at all. We tried everything, and were about to give up once again. The van had waited for over an hour and a half, and was ready to leave. And then you started to sing. And, oh my God, the miracle began. As you sang, Dad responded, and gradually brightened, eventually trying to join in. \r\n\r\nHe allowed his caregivers to get him up, dressed, fed and ready to go, the singing non-stop. You had an amazing repertoire, as you ran out of family favorites. I remember lullabies, show tunes, Christmas songs, camp songs, torch songs, fight songs, and more. We all tried to fill in (I think TimIII was there?). When we stopped, Dad drooped, so it had to be sustained. \r\n\r\nAll the way down the elevator, across the lobby for the last time, singing and waving goodbye went Dad. And it didn’t stop there. For the entire ride, across the San Mateo Bridge, up the East shore, all the way into Mercy, your heart gave forth with song. And it saved the day. I figure you sang continuously for at least two and one half hours. Yes, you were exhausted, but we cried with success.\r\nThanks, Trish! And, keep on singing!\r\nLove,\r\nTim’\r\n\r\nI had to keep eye contact with Dad the whole time … if it wavered, he slumped, and he had a phobia of bridges, so I could not stop. It was the best gift I could give to my dear Dad and I loved every minute of it.\r\n\r\nHe passed just a few months after that day … it was the last time I saw him.

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Kissed by a Whale in Tonga!

Kissed by a Whale

\r\n\r\nI wish to share with you the most astounding experience I have had over 12 years of swimming with whales!  Recently, during our Whales of Tonga Retreat in the beautiful Kingdom of Tonga, I experienced the closest encounter ever with a huge female humpback.\r\n\r\nOn our first day out in the boat, we had traveled some hours before coming upon five large adult whales.  I held the hand of one of our participants who needed just a little bit of support on this first swim with the enormous beings of the sea.\r\n\r\nAs we gazed down into the blue we could see these friendly whales swimming below about thirty feet or so with one or two gliding up to the surface to swim very close and look into our eyes.  At one point, as we were keeping our eyes on one huge female humpback (about fifty feet long!) who was about thirty feet below and maybe fifty feet ahead of us, we saw that she began to head up through the water directly toward us.\r\n\r\nThis was so exciting as we knew she was heading right for us and thought it was wonderful that she was so clearly in contact with us two as we floated on the surface together.  When this female got to about ten feet away from our faces, I thought to myself, “Surely she will turn or dive under so as not to hit us!”\r\n\r\nAlas, she just kept coming!  I could not believe my eyes when her rostrum (nose) was now looming just about two to three feet from our noses!  At that point I admit I panicked a bit thinking, “She is going to really hit us!”  Conscious of my responsibility to protect my participant clutching my hand, I instinctively started to push her to the side to avoid the collision, when suddenly, quietly and gently, the whale slipped down beneath us … not a touch or bump!  It was as if we were being kissed by the whale!  We could have reached out and touched her jaw, which looked as if it was a wall about four feet high!\r\n\r\nWhen the experience was over, my partner in this experience and I let out a breath of awe and felt frozen in disbelief for some moments.  She told me that she, in fact, knew the female would not hit us and was in total trust.  She said, “I ‘might’ have done the same as you – but not really sure – I had such trust – I felt like I was just completely present with the whale, I didn’t feel separation – I was entirely in the moment.  I do think it is natural and instinctive to want to protect.”\r\n\r\nThe whale gave me a telepathic message just then that said, “You must TRUST.”  This was such a profound lesson for me to trust the universe.  She showed me that even when life seems to be coming at me at times like a freight train and things may look scary or frightful, I must go inside and find the place of deep trust.  It also showed me how fully aware and conscious the whales are in their perceptions of space as this large female knew exactly where we were in proximity to her.\r\n\r\nShe told me that we can always trust our souls, our guidance, the universe and all the powers that be that all is in PERFECT DIVINE ORDER.  This message seems particularly important in this year of 2012 with its changes that are accelerating at lightening speed.  I hope this story inspires you!\r\n\r\nNote:  The photo above is not the same whale … my photos did not turn out that day.  The photo was taken at another Whales of Tonga Retreat.  You can see what it looks like to have a whale coming right to you!

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